| Securitys Barry Beddis
Gives Thanks for The Gift of Life For Barry Beddis, a
Jefferson security officer since 1983, every day is truly Thanksgiving Day.
Just how thankful he is for his family, for his friends, literally for his life
will hit home when he sits down for Thanksgiving Dinner at the same table with his
grandchildren, Melanie, 7, Julia, 2, and Erin, 1.
Every time I see my two youngest grandaughters, I realize how lucky I am, and how
amazing it is that I can enjoy being with them. I know how close I came to never
seeing them at all.
Barry Beddis is living, walking, working proof of the medical miracle of
transplant surgery. Thanks to a donor heart he received two years ago, about the time
Julia was born, Barry Beddis is again a fulltime Jefferson security officer and, at age
49, a proud and very thankful grandparent.
Three times since 1983, Officer Beddis found himself in life-or-death situations in
hospital emergency rooms in Philadelphia. Three times he was given the last rites of the
Roman Catholic Church. In 1996, after 110 days on a waiting list, he finally received a
healthy donor heart that today is literally his gift of life.
Giving directions to Susan G. Gerhardt, MD, Resident,
Department of Medicine, is Security Officer Barry Beddis. He is patrolling Walnut St. as
part of Jefferson Securitys Safe Corridors program, when security
officers are posted at key campus intersections and locations from 6 to 9 a.m., 3 to 6
p.m. and 10 to 11 p.m.
Active on Job and With Family
Today he works a regular day shift at Jefferson, and savors precious time with his
family whenever possible. He golfs regularly, but a knee replacement earlier this year
caused him to skip playing summer softball. Ill be ready for the 50-and-over
league next year, he quips.
On the job, I can do anything anybody else can do. People dont realize that
when they think of people with transplants, he says.
Enjoying my family is my biggest joy. Theyve always been there for me, as
have the many good friends I feel blessed to have, he says. He particularly credits
his wife, Jeanette, for being there every step of the way during his medical ordeals.
With all my wife had to do, I believe shes actually been through more than I
have.
His other family members are daughters Christine and Carolyn and son Barry. Christine,
the mother of Julia and Erin, was a Jefferson nurse for nearly eight years. Melanie is
Carolyns daughter; Barry is in the service in Okinawa.
Two massive heart attacks 10 years apart eventually caused Officer Beddiss heart
to fail, making it necessary for him to receive a heart transplant. His first attack, in
1983, came when he was a 33-year-old foot patrolman with the Philadelphia Police
Department. His second, in 1993, eventually led to his heart failing, nine years after
successful quadruple bypass surgery at Jefferson. Between 1983 and 1995 he three times
cheated death.
As he looks forward to celebrating with his family his second Thanksgiving Day with his
transplant heart, Barry Beddis reflects on his gift of life:
Everything that happens to me is a bonus its all extra. Every day I
wake up I appreciate everything about life a little bit more. If all this had not
happened, I dont think Id have the same appreciation for life. I give thanks
for that every day.
What does Security Officer Barry Beddis say about organ donation?
First, of course, fill out an organ donor card. But just as important - make sure
your family knows of your wishes. Often, this is overlooked. And it can be tragic. No
matter what you have put down in writing, if your family is not aware of your wishes, this
can prevent an organ donation. Your family must know of and agree with your wishes.
For donor cards and a Jefferson contact for information, call Laura Nash at 955-7164. |
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